As I have aged on this earth gracefully, I've learned from my mistakes but I don't regret anything I've done or said. At that time, it was something that I felt that I wanted to do, or something that I wanted to say. Not because I thought it was the best decision or not to have said something to hurt anyone. Many of us as adults still carry out our childish antics in situations where we should have though before taking action. It isn't easy to accept being wrong in most instances. Although we all want to be right, we are not. No one is perfect. This lifetime will never come again; it is precious and irreplaceable. To live without regret, we must have a concrete purpose, continually setting goals and challenges for ourselves.We need to keep moving toward those specific targets steadily and tenaciously, one step at a time. Just as fire is extinguished by water, hatred can only be defeated by love and compassion. Therefore, when you see someone doing well, congratulate them. It isn't wise to step on another mans/woman's hands/toes to get to the top in any situation. If you really want something, fight for it. No matter how great YOU may think YOU are, YOU can always go HARDER and be GREATER!