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10.28.2009

The Perfect Stranger

Las Vegas is the city of sin, am I correct? People often travel there to drown their sorrows in alcohol, gambling, prostitution, clubbing and most married men from out of town travel there to dress in drag and get high out of their minds and sleep with other men. YES! I heard it first hand!! An all American man, about 6'1 and very handsome. Married to an average woman, together they have five children and leads to what it seems to be a happy life. He works in corporate world and often travels for his job. (this is a true story, by the way) The man travels to Las Vegas only to dress in womens clothes and sleep with other men. AMAZING! Once his "duties" are over, he goes back home to be with his family. Seems very odd to me that he would do all of this and go back and sleep with his wife of x amount of years... OUCH, that will hurt her when ever she finds out huh? Trust is a bug that will bite you in the ass later.
Other men travel to Vegas in hopes of a fling. Who's gonna see this woman ever again?Which brings me to the subject of escorting. What is your idea of an escort? Mine is a highly paid prostitute. I have nothing wrong with prostitutes. It's not my cup of tea, I disagree with it but it's not my problem. In all honesty, I believe that there are people who are addicted to sex and this is how they make a living, by sleeping with strangers.Some people get off on sleeping with people that they don't even know their names. Someone TRIED to tell me that all they do is go on dates and get paid like 2grand, and some of the men just want to talk or take you to dinner. Yes, there are actual agencies that these men call in to and say "i need a date for tonight" Okay that's fine. Yes pay ME to be your arm candy and to just sit and watch me eat dinner and talk to you about bullshit. What about the ones who want to have sex with you? They are complete creeps. They come from out of town, they are not screened for any type of STD or AIDS/HIV. Well duh protection, right? WRONG. Condoms break and who just wants to have someone who has "something" ANYTHING just sticking their man meat in you? I understand you take that risk with people you sleep with anyways, but you actually NEVER EVER seen this creep a day in your life and you will never see him again, not even around town and by the way you never even had a conversation with him/her. WHY? because he does not live there. I understand that it is legal in Vegas but damn, if its so legal maybe these guys need to be screened before you go sleepin with them. I'm just sayin. Some men want three somes and are willing to pay at least 5grand for it. Hmm with all this talk, maybe I should open up my own escort service. lol. Seriously, what do you really think? I believe that the women/men who put themselves through this for fast money have deep rooted issues, want to be accepted somewhere, and somewhat insecure about themselves, and they are too lazy to work. FLAT OUT. People say that strippers are too lazy to work but most of these women have careers, or in school trying to get the extra cash to pay for class. You cannot sit here and say that some of these escorts have actual careers. What are their careers not successful? Get outta here. I'm not buying it. Please don't take up for an escort,its dumb. I'm not knocking the hustle but, DAMN! There is a difference if you are dating the guy, I mean you're just gonna end up having sex with him anyways, right? But to a perfect stranger? no judgement, you just need a life coach.

10.26.2009

Please Get Over Yourself. Quickly.

I follow some really opinionated folks on twitter. Last night while "tweeting" @NaledgeKIDZ brought up a really great point. I don't know how many other people replied to him but, he said I was missing his point. In all actuality I was trying to prove a point as well. The topic just so happened to basically be about interracial couples, and why do black women flip out when a black man dates a white woman but never act a fool about dating Latino, Asians, or mixed race. Hell I don't even know the answer to that question. In all honesty, love/like has no color or race and ignorance is blind to maturity. @NaledgeKIDZ also made the statement "if someone said man you want this ugly broke black chick..or this rich pretty white girl...I'd prolly catch jungle fever" (lmao) Seriously, there are two sides to that. If the ugly black broke girl had money/great credit then there would be no jungle fever. There are black women out here that have great credit and do things on their own (that don't brag about it). BUT those are the ones who have been scared mentally and sometime physically by black men. In all honesty black men do put black women down a lot, but they asses came from a black woman. I think that's why most black women are so hurt and disgusted when men date out side of their race. (I see both sides of this topic and I can comment on both).

I hate to say it but black women, you need to build a bridge and get over yourself. Its annoying how black women can date whom ever they wish or have the hots for whom ever they wish, but as soon as a black man starts to date outside of his race its a problem. Mostly to white women. I understand the history of slavery and how "the white people" did black people wrong. Hell, white people did their own race wrong as well as blacks doing blacks wrong and any other nationality if you really want to know. It is in the past, and as long as you understand the past and we as a people come together to make sure history doesn't repeat itself then I think everything is FINE. (Although some of your mothers won't allow that or would hate that..Live for yourself not your parents-they will still love you) Everyone wants/needs someone who is equal to them mentally--most cases financially. It may even go deeper than that. The sex may be better, the other woman might take his feelings into consideration, ANYTHING!! You have to realize that people are people, and everyone needs love. There is somebody for everybody. You cannot judge a persons personal preference, it's not you. OH MY GOD!!! I just figured out the problem..IT'S NOT YOU! Are you mad because that man that you have your eye on has his eye on a white woman and you're black? #DBM (dont be mad!), it's not cute to be jealous of another woman, no matter her race. I'm sure you can do much better. I honestly don't give a damn about a black man dating a white woman. Men don't care about race either, they just want someone to love them and be submissive and no drama. Trust me. I can't even say I would be upset if I got cheated on for a white woman or any other raced woman for that matter because there is obviously something wrong in the relationship. At the same time I can call the man a coward for not just breaking everything off before the cheating even starts. It'll soon be 2010, take a chill pill and think about all the negative energy you use to be mad a at black man for dating outside of his race. You could be using that energy to at least find SOMEONE who will put up with that bullshit.




*Disclaimer: I know Iwas jumping all around but this is just my opinion and MY blog. You get the point of the topic.*