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1.27.2010

Past, Present, Future by: Iyuana-Nichole

This poem woke me up in the middle of the night and I'm surprised that I remembered it to write it out. This I introduce to you is 'Past, Present,Future'. It actually is something that is real life for not just me but I'm pretty sure a few people feel this way about someone who they genuinely care for no matter what happens, no matter their attitude, occupation or how they feel about you. That person just keeps holding you at a distance and is not trying to hear you out because of your past with them or your past in general. Or because they aren't ready to grow with you. I think that its selfish on that persons behalf. But read it and enjoy.

Past, Present, Future
Can't get away from the past
When its in my present
What do I do?
Besides put it in a frame as the future
Can't get away from the present
When it is the present
Stuck in the middle
Of what we want it to be
For the future.
Can't forget about the past
It IS the future
Locked in a frame
For everyone to see.
You see
Everyone remembers the past
Not what you are destin to be
There is no positive
If you can't look beyond.
Thats why there is no future
For you and me.
*thought out and written by Iyuana-Nichole*

Being Genuine

I'm sure we all want to know the answer to the question I am about to present.

When you have feelings for someone who is always being hounded and all that craziness of the opposite sex, how do you prove to them that you are the most genuine out of them all, knowing that you can't MAKE someone love you or make them understand how you feel?

That is a tough question, and most importantly a tough action to take. My answer is and/or opinion is: Sometimes that person 'just knows' or they have a instant connection. Otherwise, you have to give the person time to get to know your feelings and who you are as a person although you cannot force yourself onto someone. You actually have to be real with the man/woman like "i am and always will be here no matter what", or simply KEEP IT 100% real at all times. Remember that one small lie or fib can lead to disaster. The person will lose trust instantly. Its not about how long you've known someone or how much you know about that person. Its about chemistry and connection, but like I said you have to let them get inside your mental as well. Also it is not WHAT you say, it's HOW you say it. For the most part if you want that person to take you serious you cannot just jump right into bed with them. [In some cases that type of thing leads to something serious but not all the time don't take that and run.] Am I right or wrong? Tell me your opinion.

What's Your Purpose?

Life is a challenge and if you don't challenge yourself then you have no purpose. You have to ask yourself, what do you want out of life itself? Not what you want out of yourself. Of course you want yourself to be successful, but you have to live your life and make something of it. You gotta crawl before you walk. Move forward never backwards. Yes you will have a downfall and something might hold you back but don't move backwards. Women do have more power than men. But it's the men who make women think they 'CANT'.

Learn from experience not from what people tell you. You come in this world ALONE and you leave this world ALONE. That's why I walk ALONE. Too many people are out in here walking this earth for the wrong reasons. Everyone has a different hustle. Get it how you live. But when it comes down to it are you really proud about how you earn your money? Does it make you who you are? Because GOD put you on this earth for a reason. Make something of your life. Ladies don't just sit around having babies by men so you can cash in. Get up and stop living off the support money for your child. Believe it or not, one day that man is gonna get smart and take custody of that child because you don't have anything without him... Think about it... Use your head for more than a hat rack.

Get an education or teach yourself new things everyday so that you will be able to teach your children history.