Life is a challenge and if you don't challenge yourself then you have no purpose. You have to ask yourself, what do you want out of life itself? Not what you want out of yourself. Of course you want yourself to be successful, but you have to live your life and make something of it. You gotta crawl before you walk. Move forward never backwards. Yes you will have a downfall and something might hold you back but don't move backwards. Women do have more power than men. But it's the men who make women think they 'CANT'.
Learn from experience not from what people tell you. You come in this world ALONE and you leave this world ALONE. That's why I walk ALONE. Too many people are out in here walking this earth for the wrong reasons. Everyone has a different hustle. Get it how you live. But when it comes down to it are you really proud about how you earn your money? Does it make you who you are? Because GOD put you on this earth for a reason. Make something of your life. Ladies don't just sit around having babies by men so you can cash in. Get up and stop living off the support money for your child. Believe it or not, one day that man is gonna get smart and take custody of that child because you don't have anything without him... Think about it... Use your head for more than a hat rack.
Get an education or teach yourself new things everyday so that you will be able to teach your children history.