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5.26.2009

You See Me?

I can say that I think like a guy. It took me a while to realize it. But it is what it is.
My friend and I were having this conversation the other day and I am more than comfortable to share with you. I really don't care about what you think after you read it because most of you women will feel the same way if you come out and say it or not. I am not afraid to speak how I feel.
Well the conversation was about her and I really not giving two shits about what a man has because we can get it too. In example: Money, Cars, Clothes--The Hoes...lol.. Everything a man can get so can we. Most women scream that independent shit but still need a man to provide for them. It's cool if you're married or in a committed relationship-because you need each other,but all that fuckin this person and that person then expecting one of those niggas to provide for you completely, is out of line. So we both came to the conclusion: Fuck what you have, just do your job and lay the pipe. Who cares about the other chicks, what you have, where you get your clothes, dates and all that. DO WHAT YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO DO, if nothing else. Shit- guys do it to us. They don't want a relationship and they don't care about how we get by because at the end of the day they are going to do them. I feel them completely. So with that being said, post your comments--your judgement--I don't care because I will still feel this way until someone is worth my time....

8 comments:

De'shaune said...

I applaud you on your self realization. Most fake ass people cant do that. That's real bitch shit!

Antwyan said...

I can't co-sign with you on this one. I would fully explain but it would take me a long ass time. But at the end of the day men & women both need to grow the fuck up & stop playing these selfish ass games.

TROPHYWiFE said...

You're right Antwyan. but i still feel how i feel

FreeSpirit said...

I LIKE THIS POST because readin' your name & then your post for the 1st time, i pleasantly surprised.
BUT YOU HAVE SPOKEN THE TRUTH I'LL SAY.
a lot of times, girls will push everything 2the side for the attention of some dude but GIRLS ARE A LOT OF TIMES ON THE BACKBURNER for dudes' time. a lot of guys will go hang out with their boys, PUT THEIR JOB first, etc while a female will be freakin' out about her rent cuz she sat at home wit her boo instead of goin 2 work. i like this & i'm glad you have A STRONG OPINION.

Tangy. said...

Your last line explains it all...I feel both women and men feel like "its play the game or get played" until they meet that ONE but anyway patience is a virtue mamas...

MssThang said...

I agree wit everything you just said!!! I would have said the same thang! They can get it and so can we! AND A LOT OF US ARE. Sweat a nigga for what he got- LAME most of them use that shit to play these hoes....making them think they gone get it. A lot of these niggas really "don't got it" anyway. A They be faking. Independence is the way to go. A man can add to what I have, but at the end of the day Ima get what I want anyway! Depending 100% on a man is for thre birds! They use that to control women anyway. AAYYYYEE!!!

TROPHYWiFE said...

All im sayin is, if i know im sexually attracted to the guy and he feels the same--fcuk the dates and the shopping and all that extra shit. just give me what i want and go about your business. we're gonna do it anyway! i can get my own because i dont really want you for real... women know what they want from a man in the first 45mins of conversation with him. so why drag the shit out? and thats real talk.

miss-b. said...

i agree and i disagree. it really depends on what's going on with me in my life.

i have gone through stages where i was in my "fuck men, do me" state of mind and i've gone through stages where i've felt like my "goodies" were just too good to be given away for free.

i don't think that's being dependent on men nor is it me expecting anyone to provide for me completely. anything i want i can get myself BUT if asked whether i'd prefer to drop 2 to 4 cash on a "good shoe" or let "him" do it then... i think we all know what the answer would be.

dates. material items. etc. are all basic complementary things unless two people have a "we're strictly sexing" understanding.