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The Same Girl

There is so much wrongery going on in the world today, yesterday and tomorrow.

I don't even know where to start with this one. Okay--

The dating scene in general is all discombobulated. You never know who's checkin who...Don't think you're the only one cuz I guarentee that the chick sittin under the dryer next to you at the hair salon is datin the same dudes you're dating...
Knowing that women over populate men (in my world), I pick my men like I pick my fruit when I want a serious relationship. Seriously you have to be extremely careful. Men and Women both are sneaky. Guys will live with their chick- make her believe that she's the only one for him while he's driving her car to meet up with the next chick. SMH... How can a female be so silly? I have witnessed it over and over again.

I AM THE SAME GIRL your man leaves home in YOUR SHIT to come see. No i am not by far proud of it. HEY, I'm not the dummy in the relationship. Sure if Im not in a Relationship--I'll be girlfriend number two so I can send your dumb ass back home to your chick at night. lol. Sounds ruthless and disgusting- but you're the one putting yourself in this position. Because at the end of the day-- I DONT CARE....

The situation usually happens as follows: The guy can't run game on me and tell me a bunch of bull because I see through the game and I think like a man. I'm always 2 steps ahead of the game. I'm never the chick giving my hard earned money to a man only so that he can go out and trick on other females. Men know who they can and cannot run all over. So what do they do? They keep the "stay at home" girlfriend for security, so they will have a place to sleep at night if you will. The "same girl" is the one they really want to be with because she gives no drama, he has fun with her, he can be himself and can handle her business without bribing a man to stay by giving him her last penny.
You will NEVER catch me giving my money to a man. Dude, bring home the bacon and i'll cook it-OKAAAY? Seriously though...Is it wrong if you know the guy you're dating has a girlfriend? I don't think so especially if you just want to have fun. That's your business and my opinion. If there is no ring--no worries. Kapeesh?

Don't Be Mad-Get Real... Play the game or Get played..FLAT OUT.

*SIDENOTE*-- Dating people in your city is so last year thats how drama starts...try dating someone in a different state.


Allan said...

How about date a person in a different country?

like Toronto, Ontario, Canada? loll I'm down if you are babe :)

I am Jwork said...

Damn but your very right

Renee said...

karma is a mean ass bitch, so i try and stay on her good side. To each their own, I can't fade the cheating boyfriends tho. For the simple fact, I have a great job and a short temper. So any altercations I going to jail, I already know.

But do u boo! 'Fun em dont bun em'

FreeSpirit said...

i must say. i AGREE with your insight. dating is SOMEWHAT OF A TESTIMONY in itself these days. its tribulations. one day you give ur # out, the next the "WIFEY" is callin' you. sheesh. i agree. in this SO-CALLED new age old age of dating, its best 2watch ur baQ first & rub his later.