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7.15.2009

"Take Me Out To The Ball Game, Cuz I Only Fuck Wit Ballers"

With the name "Trophywife", and the looks of a goddess (.don't judge me.lol.). Everyone seems to think that I am someone who wants a man to take care of me, while I sit at home filing my nails getting fanned while some servant peels grapes and other exotic fruits feeding them to me sitting by the pool on the coast of Egypt. I FUCKING WISH.

I don't live in a fantasy world. I know nothing will happen unless I make moves. I actually have a JOB. I know it's hard to believe, but it is very true. I work 10-12 hour shifts. I don't ever yell out that "I don't need no man to do shit for me cuz I got it all" because I know thats not true. Men and Women were ment to be because they need eachother for SOMETHING. I know there are some women out there that yell that "independent" shit-- only because Neo and Jamie Foxx got ya heads all types of fucked up. Stop living your life by songs and be real with yourselves and BE YOURSELF!!!.


As far as the quote "take me out to the ball game, cuz i only fuck with ballers- yup them is my type of niggas-shot callers", is far from a lie. Now lets get this shit straight---> Bal-ler: an individual with a large sum of money{and continues to get it}. If I get money, what makes you think that I want someone broke. I may not be a walking Bank Of America ATM but I think I make a descent amount of money and planning my life accordingly.You NEED money in order to survive and provide. Am I right or Am I right? Because I think I'm right. I mean don't get me wrong but every woman wants a BOSS--BUT-- I believe that in every relationship both people should work or have some type of income. What if one of you can't work..then what? I dont give a damn how much money one or the other makes the both of you need to be gettin money. Provide for eachother and stop just depending on one source of income. Anything can be taken away at any given moment. I mean damn, I'm borderline lazy but I like nice things so I go to work. You want to argue about it, leave a comment.

7 comments:

Prelude2aKiss said...

Completely agree... Chicks get caught up on wanting to be perceived as independent, but don't realize having someone who matches your fly is an asset... You don't need to have them do everything.. but a 50/50 relationship is a lot better then being by ya lonesome. And if a chick can find that "BOSS" then so be it...as long as ya man is doing what he needs to do, to keep you happy..

Christina said...

Get it girl !

khaki said...

i agree

FreeSpirit said...

i can agree 2a certain degree. i mean yes to have someone 2match you & assist you is GREAT. however, everyone doesn't have that option or desire. so to be financially INDEPENDENT [outside of a man] is quite an accomplishment. now i do tend to want someone who can do for themselves as i do for myself so if you cant then fine. true everyone DOES want a boss. i personally would not want someone making less than myself but to each his own. *& havin' someone who can buy you nice things on top of what you can buy yourself is always a BONUS but not NECESSITY.

Katrina is a Princess said...

I agree! Your thought processes are so real and on point! Its very true what you're saying, and even thought you do state that having a man with a job and money is great, I still get the vibe that you put love first. :) You NEED money, its super true and if you are in a serious relationship, I think the man should at least TRY to be getting money. You work to support yourself, you dont need to be supporting his ass too. You should compliment and support one another. It's not how much they make...but if they are making anything at all. You dont need a man who sits on your shoulders...it will just bring you down because obviously he does not care about anything important.

I made it quite clear that its important to have SOME kind of income. You never said they had to be millionaires, which you are right...is not a necessity, but having some kind of income is a necessity. Shoot, if they can't get a good job, flippin burgers is fine as long as they are bringing something home. So I agree with you 1000000%!

Renee said...

ummm it's not hard to believe you have to work like the rest of us. shit even superhead had to put in effort, nothing in life is free. U may be taking your 'trophy wife' persona alil too seriously.

I agree with the rest. Keep up the good work!

precyse said...

"Men and Women were ment to be because they need eachother for SOMETHING. I know there are some women out there that yell that "independent" shit-- only because Neo and Jamie Foxx got ya heads all types of fucked up. Stop living your life by songs and be real with yourselves and BE YOURSELF!!!. "

i love you for that...any young impressionable women reading this should let it soak in...realness beautiful , realness..following...cheq me out...