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1.02.2008

Relationships...

Relationships aren't for everyone, because not everyone wants to be tied down. I do believe that women mature faster than men. Thats just my personal opinion. Men just want their cake and everybody elses. Don't get me wrong we have women who are like that as well. But don't you want that one person who you can tell all your secrets to, someone who you can do everything with. Like your bestfriend and partner? All women want that fairytale life. UPDATE--It doesn't happen that way anymore. Men go around sticking their moles in everybodys holes. Then the woman finds out and seeks revenge, starts stalkin the man-- and all that bogus ass bullshit. Thats why I'm by myself and let my guard down to nobody. Who wants the drama? When women try to connect with a man on a mental level, they don't want it. They want whats inside the womans V.S's. Then they get mad when you don't give it up.Why? Because they are still on that immature middle school B.S. So tell me your horror stories about this topic. If its something sweet and thoughtful feel free to post it.

8 comments:

m.a.c said...

I feel what you're saying .. But that works both ways ... It's not always on tha man .. There are a lot of immature women out there as well .... Seems 50 50 these days ..

tarintino07 said...

yeah it is about 50/50 nowdays . there arent to many wifey material up here

Anonymous said...

Yo, I’m digging what you’re saying in the blog and it’s all true. I admit I was one of those dudes sticking my mole in every hole I could find…… it’s fucked up, mainly because I lost the one I truly loved. But what can I do??? I’ve come to realize that I have a lot of love to give, so now I’m being true to the one I chose to love. I’m a man and I have needs. To fulfill them I’m honest with my girl. I want to make her my wife and find her a girlfriend. Is that wrong? I believe and I’ve been told that I’ll make the perfect husband. I just need the perfected wife’s.

rainsme2 said...

I agree they aren't for everyone, a lot of ppl dont realize what goes into one. Then say eff it when it gets rough lol
You make a great point that ive said b4 to ppl"All women want that fairytale life." we can be realistic, some ppl do get that fairytale...but!!! some ppl throw away their "true story" away in looking for a fairytale. Sometimes when something doesn't fit the fairytale right off bat, we then assume its not or cant be right. Then pass over it since ppl think it wont be right ,when with a little time in some cases it could be great.

NYCleveland said...

a lot of women say their waiting for a good man to come along but when someone approaches them they do things like give em the cold shoulder or give them some bogus number, now some of the places we approach is wrong but some men have good intentions, but all women want is a thug, or their "trophyhusband" lol... all the good men aren't gone...they just never get a shot. Not saying you have to give every guy a chance, but you can learn a lot by just having a conversation...and "I have a man" doesn't count! my 2 cents, peace

blessed said...

Yes, I agree thats been my experience with women, Mostly immature or insecure, sometimes both. Yea that would be nice if I could find someone like that, but its hard to find someone like me.So I've learned to let go and let god!

Mr. Perfect said...

Mr. Perfect says... Kudos NYCleveland for hitting the nail on the head. Sounds like you've been hanging around at the Sunset lounge a.k.a "Ballers Paradise", on some friday nights like Mr. Perfect has. Granted Mr. Perfect understands that the club is not an ideal venue to search for companionship. Mr. Perfect also understands that most women go there with the preconceived notion that guys are only there looking for a piece of ass. Which is true in some cases, but is inherently flawed because men are ALWAYS looking for a piece of ass. Location has NOTHING to do with it. So they decide that no matter what a guy says they are not going to give him the time of day. Unless... That guy is a ball player, big time drug dealer, or just someone who appears to have a lot of money. Then its on and poppin. All that Mr. Perfect is saying is that if a guy is respectful and ok looking, be social. You never know, you might like the guy. But Mr. Perfect digresses...

Let Mr. Perfect take a "Mr. Moment" to size up Iyuana's situation... "men just want their cake and everybody else"... Correct. For the most part men want to play both sides of the fence. That can be because they are not ready to, havent found the right one, or just flat out dont want to. Either way if they're honest about it and where they are as far as the relationship goes then you have to respect that. Remember that a guy is not going to tell you what you dont ask him so you have to put yourself on the line and ask EXACTLY what you want to know. Now, on the other hand if he lied to or decieved you, then he's just as my man Katt would say a "bitch nigga". Lying and deceiving for personal gain (i.e. sex) is wrong. A "real nigga" is going to tell you the truth when asked a straight up direct question. They dont care if it hurts or helps their chances of sleeping with you because they are NOT pressed about it anyway... "then they get mad when you dont give it up. Why?" Its because they're a "bitch nigga", and they feel like that is owed to them either because of the time they spent with you, who they are, or they just havent been getting any. Granted Mr. Perfect will test you if are alone with him. But Mr. Perfect also understands and appeciates a woman who respects herself, and doesnt want to "give it up" right away. Thats just what "real niggas" do. Sounds like Iyuana is having a hard time differentiating between the two and subsequently got hurt and is now jaded. Well, if you were deceived or lied to I am sorry for that. But Dont just push people away because of one or two "bitch ass niggas". You just have to be more careful when sizing people up. I know its hard cause these "bitch niggas" can be real slick but if you keep looking they will do something to reveal themselves eventually.

NYCleveland said...

Sounds to be correct Mr Perfect...not too many comments from the ladies???