Past, Present, Future by: Iyuana-Nichole

This poem woke me up in the middle of the night and I'm surprised that I remembered it to write it out. This I introduce to you is 'Past, Present,Future'. It actually is something that is real life for not just me but I'm pretty sure a few people feel this way about someone who they genuinely care for no matter what happens, no matter their attitude, occupation or how they feel about you. That person just keeps holding you at a distance and is not trying to hear you out because of your past with them or your past in general. Or because they aren't ready to grow with you. I think that its selfish on that persons behalf. But read it and enjoy.

Past, Present, Future
Can't get away from the past
When its in my present
What do I do?
Besides put it in a frame as the future
Can't get away from the present
When it is the present
Stuck in the middle
Of what we want it to be
For the future.
Can't forget about the past
It IS the future
Locked in a frame
For everyone to see.
You see
Everyone remembers the past
Not what you are destin to be
There is no positive
If you can't look beyond.
Thats why there is no future
For you and me.

*thought out and written by Iyuana-Nichole*

Being Genuine

I'm sure we all want to know the answer to the question I am about to present.

When you have feelings for someone who is always being hounded and all that craziness of the opposite sex, how do you prove to them that you are the most genuine out of them all, knowing that you can't MAKE someone love you or make them understand how you feel?

That is a tough question, and most importantly a tough action to take. My answer is and/or opinion is: Sometimes that person 'just knows' or they have a instant connection. Otherwise, you have to give the person time to get to know your feelings and who you are as a person although you cannot force yourself onto someone. You actually have to be real with the man/woman like "i am and always will be here no matter what", or simply KEEP IT 100% real at all times. Remember that one small lie or fib can lead to disaster. The person will lose trust instantly. Its not about how long you've known someone or how much you know about that person. Its about chemistry and connection, but like I said you have to let them get inside your mental as well. Also it is not WHAT you say, it's HOW you say it. For the most part if you want that person to take you serious you cannot just jump right into bed with them. [In some cases that type of thing leads to something serious but not all the time don't take that and run.] Am I right or wrong? Tell me your opinion.

What's Your Purpose?

Life is a challenge and if you don't challenge yourself then you have no purpose. You have to ask yourself, what do you want out of life itself? Not what you want out of yourself. Of course you want yourself to be successful, but you have to live your life and make something of it. You gotta crawl before you walk. Move forward never backwards. Yes you will have a downfall and something might hold you back but don't move backwards. Women do have more power than men. But it's the men who make women think they 'CANT'.

Learn from experience not from what people tell you. You come in this world ALONE and you leave this world ALONE. That's why I walk ALONE. Too many people are out in here walking this earth for the wrong reasons. Everyone has a different hustle. Get it how you live. But when it comes down to it are you really proud about how you earn your money? Does it make you who you are? Because GOD put you on this earth for a reason. Make something of your life. Ladies don't just sit around having babies by men so you can cash in. Get up and stop living off the support money for your child. Believe it or not, one day that man is gonna get smart and take custody of that child because you don't have anything without him... Think about it... Use your head for more than a hat rack.

Get an education or teach yourself new things everyday so that you will be able to teach your children history.

Lets Talk About Sex

It seems that everyone now is single or dating. Or you're married but still kickin it with whomever you want. Some women always try and make it seem as if they are a goody goody and they just don't talk about intimate things or "relations", or even not having sex if they aren't in a relationship. Truthfully ladies, it is always important to stay classy while you are speaking to a man in general conversation. Especially if you just met him. And men even if you know you only want one thing, just be honest and upfront in a respectful way and you just might get your wish granted. What I want to know is, when is it appropriate to discuss sex? To be honest, I have to be extremely comfortable with a guy to talk about something like that. Then again, I don't even know why it would even be open for discussion. Why not just DO IT? You know? Do you agree? So since we are saying just do it. What position do you prefer? Or do you just not care as long as you can get it? Also, if your man asked to have sex with you in your rear end, does that consider him homo?

Iyuana VS. TrophyWife

Look at the photo.. Whats the difference? I will explain shortly.

I received a question via www.formspring.me . Basically the person said that they know the real me and I'm cute and all but why do I act as if I have an attitude over the net. Now, not to say that anyone really know me and what defines me within. But anyone who has known me two months or better knows for a fact that I have had an attitude problem since forever. Its not anything that I do purposely. I'm just not one for bullshit, and I have a short fuse. If I don't like you, the attitude is 10 times worse. My question to that person is if you know me so well, why would you send that question through the Internet? Anyone who KNOWS ME knows that if they have a question about how I'm acting, you can call me and not HIDE through www.formspring.me because your name clearly does not show up. Apparently you don't know me. lol. DUMB ASS. and that is probably the reason I have an attitude. Back to the photo. Whats the difference? The difference is EVERYTHING. IYUANA looks sweet. I am quiet with a very short temper and I have social anxiety. I also care about the people around me but very quick to put someone in their place over something as small as an ant or big as an elephant. I like to sit at home or lay in my bed all day with wine. I'm not hard to please but I am also not easily impressed. Very nonchlant if you will.TROPHYWIFE is just a name I use for GLAMOUR MODELING. I can turn TROPHYWIFE on for the flash and trophywife gets turned right back off when all the heavy make-up and skimpy clothing comes off. Trophywife is more bold and obnoxious and whatever comes up comes out. She is just eye candy. Not your typical "trophy wife". Please remember that Trophy Wife does not define me as a person or how I feel or think. I AM NOT MY JOB. Objections?

My Weakness...

Yes, You guessed it! a nice Chocolate Man.... What woman do you know that will deny one of these men? They're like chocolate eye candy. Just makes your soul turn inside out and eat chocolate cake!...lol.. It's just a look that is just unexplainable... I haven't even looked at a lightskin guy in so long, I forget what they even look like. Brownskin men just seem to carry themselves like no other. Sorry lightskin guys, black is back and will never go anywhere. Tell me what YOUR weakness is, it can be anything.

Most Expensive Parfum

I love to smell good. I'm not talking about the five for $20 at Victorias Secret either.Yea it smells wonderful, but everyone has it. I like real perfume or shall I say "Parfum"-lol-.. Anyways, its called "No.1". Its the most expensive and it's $2,150 per oz. It's hand-made lead crystal with a .33-carat diamond in the neck. No. 1 is limited by the scarcity of its ingredients, which include ylang ylang specially grown in Madagascar, vanilla, orris, natural gum resin, sandalwood and bergamot.Don't worry because it's for men and women (I'm curious how it smells). Guiness Book of World Records made it official to the creator Clive Christian in London. For more information on this bottle of gold please visit www.clive.com

Other highly priced Parfums

• Caron's Poivre: $2,000 (2oz) http://www.parfumscaron.com/
• Chanel's Chanel No. 5: $1,850 (15.2oz) http://www.chanel.com/
• Baccarat's Les Larmes Sacrées de Thebes: $1,700 (.25oz) http://www.harrods.com/
• Annick Goutal's Eau d'Hadrien: $1,500 (3.4oz) http://www.annickgoutal.nl/

New Things To Come

Many blogs that I read, they talk about celebrities and what they do or got caught doing. Yes, to an extent it is interesting to see what they do for publicity. Then it gets very old, and you start to wonder why people think their lives are so interesting. They are people too and they do the same dumb shit we all do, except the whole world is watching them, and they got a lil bit more money. So since everyone is doing "that" with their blogs, I've decided to make my blog MORE about ME and what I do on a daily basis. It wont be a tell all but it will be a tell most. I was informed that people are interested in what I do and how I do it. I never really thought so but I think this will be a way to step my blog game up and keep you posted on the silly, stupid but normal shit I do and say. lol. I mean I've been doing blogs for http://www.eighty81.com/, went through a small period of time when I did a gossip column for Black Sports, and I've even started blogging for The Stephanie Tubbs Jones Foundation. All of those are fine and I love them all but I feel like I haven't paid that much attention to my own blog. So along with blogging for the other businesses and sticking to their rules, I am going to break the rules with mine. So stay tuned for a better blog from me :o)

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND YOURS. I'M A LITTLE BIT LATE ON THIS POST BUT LETS MAKE 2010 EVEN BETTER THAN 2009!!! I WISH EVERYONE MUCH SUCCESS THIS YEAR. LETS NOT TALK ABOUT RESOLUTIONS, JUST MAKE THEM HAPPEN!!